How to get over your fear of speaking in public

Does the thought of speaking in public make you want to throw up?

fear of speaking in public If you answered ‘Yes’ you’re not alone.

The fear of speaking in public (referred to as ‘Glossophobia’) outweighs people’s fear of death.

In fact, the fear of speaking in public is THE greatest fear people can have – according to

A few years ago one of my business colleagues approached me and asked me to work with her husband.

He was a senior executive in the transportation industry and had recently been presented with an opportunity to step up the corporate ladder into one of the company’s top senior roles.

He had been working towards this role for many years, and now finally the opportunity had presented itself. However upon learning the role would require him to speak in front of staff and customers – he promptly turned it down.


His fear of speaking in public.

He turned down the job opportunity that he had dreamed about (and had worked extremely hard towards) for years because of his fear of public speaking.

So, like my colleagues’ husband, if you are one of the 75% of people who fear public speaking, you’ve probably been reading my recent Speaking to Grow Your Business articles, thinking: “Yeah right Annemarie – it’s never going to happen.”

Today’s article is for you. Here are three things you can do to begin minimizing your fear of speaking in public, so you can finally start to reap the many benefits that speaking to grow your business, offers.

Your Irresistible Signature Giveaway: a vital element in your Signature Talk

Speaking is one of the best ways I know to help you grow your business – fast!

Signature Talk Imagine this…

A few week’s ago you delivered your Signature Talk to 50 of your ideal clients.

  • Ninety percent of the audience are now on your list (i.e. subscribers) and part of your community. These are people who have given you their permission for you to continue building and nurturing a relationship with them;
  • 10 people (i.e. leads) registered to speak with privately through your complimentary Strategy Session (which is an automated process you’ve created as a follow up once someone’s signs up for your Irresistible Signature Giveaway), and
  • Out of the five conversations you’ve had already – three people are now going to work with you privately in your 3-month VIP program generating you $15,000 in sales.

A pretty awesome outcome – wouldn’t you say?

How to connect with your audience during your Signature Talk

Ever found yourself listening to a speaker who droned on and on – wishing they would hurry up and finish their Signature Talk?

I have.

How to connect with your audience during your Signature Talk Recently, in fact.

The presenter’s information wasn’t structured and flitted all over the place.

What she spoke about sounded more like an infomercial for her business and not the topic the event organizers had promoted and promised.

She also read her entire presentation word-for-word from her note pad with the only acknowledgement we received being an occasional glance as she turned over to the next page of her script.

As a member of the audience I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry.

However, as a coach and mentor who supports entrepreneurs  in creating a powerful and meaningful Signature Talk that generates subscribers, leads and clients (and 5-figure pay days) for their businesses – I felt sorry for her.

I’m sure I wasn’t the only person in the audience who felt this way and I know she missed out on many business opportunities with the 150+ people in the audience – many of whom were her ideal clients.

All I can say is thankfully there was coffee, tea and refreshments being served during the presentation. Otherwise it would have been the longest 40 minutes of my life.

The Power of Storytelling in your Signature Talk

Are you using the power of storytelling in your Signature Talk? You should be – here’s why…

Once upon a time…

Storytelling … a very common phrase, which I’m sure you can recall from your childhood as you waited with great expectation to find out what journey you were about to embark on in the story that followed.

I know I can.

The power of storytelling has been around for centuries – even before the advent of writing.

Stories being passed from generation to generation around camp fires, through paintings and carvings on cave walls, on clay/stone tablets, or any other method that could immortalize a message.

This is how events were and continue to be passed down from generation to generation through the telling and sharing of stories using various mediums – even today.

I love a great story – whether captured in a book or a movie.

In fact one of my favorite movies of all times is the trilogy of the Lord of the Rings.

From the start of the first episode – Fellowship of the Rings, where Cate Blanchett (who plays the character of Galadriel – an elf queen, known as the Lady of the Woods) begins the story with the narration: “history became legend, and legend became myth and some things that should not have been forgotten were lost…” right through to the end where Frodo and Samwise Gamgee get to the top of the Mount Doom, ready to destroy the ring. I’m captured for hours on end by the characters and their journies.

How NOT to alienate your audience at your next speaking gig

Imagine this…

You’ve spent hours preparing your talk and there you are on stage in front of hundreds of people – sharing your message.

alienate But… something unexpected and horrifying is happening.

Instead of smiling faces of appreciation, your audience is frowning.

Several people are leaning across to one another whispering while looking at you and shaking their heads in disgust; and a few have gotten up and walked out the door.

What happened?

You’ve alienated your audience.

Thankfully we are only imagining this scenario– however I remember cringing when a colleague told me about a similar situation that occurred with a well-known business person at one of her speaking gigs.

Rather than inspire and empower people, she offended them.

She alienated her audience.

While being in a position where you walk away from a speaking gig with no subscribers, leads or clients is disappointing, walking away from giving your Signature Talk with no subscribers, leads or clients AND having to do some serious damage control to turn around your tarnished reputation – is far worse.

And the damage may not be confined to just your audience.

Speaking To Grow Your Business: A Common Mistake

Are you speaking to grow your business?

Speaking A Common Mistake Speaking is a great way to boost your visibility and profile to MANY of your ideal clients as it follows the one-to-many model.

However, ONLY if you have a clear strategy and the RIGHT steps in place.

Unfortunately, many business owners who are speaking to grow their business are leaving thousands (if not tens of thousands) of dollars on the table, because they DON’T have the right steps in place.

Let me explain.

Imagine you’ve just given a presentation and the audience enjoyed your talk.

Even though you received a loud applause at the end of your talk, and you had many people coming up to you after your presentation to shake your hand and thank you for your inspirational message – not one person asked you about your services or how they could work with you.

What do you do?

Speaking to Grow Your Business: 3 tools you MUST have in place

Are you speaking to grow your business?

3Tools According to the Social Media Marketing Industry Report – 2014, sixty per cent of business’s who participated in the survey were going to use speaking (and networking) as an additional way to market their business, alongside social media.

In my article “How to Build Credibility, Visibility and Profitability FAST with this One-To-Many Model” I shared the many benefits and successes I have personally experienced through public speaking and can therefore highly recommend speaking as a great way to build visibility for your business.

To recap some of these successes, they include:

  • Building my credibility as a specialist: I’ve been sought out to speak on other people’s stages alongside other multi-six and seven-figure business owners;
  • Growing my list of subscribers: I consistently grow my list of subscribers from every talk. In fact, recently after a 30-minute presentation I added over 350 highly targeted people to my list who I now know are interested in that specific topic.

[CCP #5] How bartering your services could affect your money mindset & biz growth

Hi, Annemarie Cross – Money, Marketing & Mindset Business Coach with another jam packed show for you with tips and strategies on how you build a successful coaching business / practice.

Are you tempted to enter into a bartering arrangement because it’s the only way you can afford to hire support? Or do you struggle with not having enough time to get everything done in your business?

If you answered yes, then this week’s show is a must-list as I’ll be speaking about:

  • Bartering: is this sound business sense or a money mindset barrier
  • How to start budgeting towards your support team
  • What you focus on expands
  • I’ll be answering Hayley P’s question: The biggest hurdle I have to getting paid what I’m worth is: Managing my time
  • Inspirational quote

Do you have a question you’d like me to answer in an upcoming show? Or do you want to share a comment or ‘aha’ moment?